He was fine earlier, this kinda hit me by surprise. Every time I would try to say good night, he would end it with "I guess", I don't know maybe it's me but he texts differently. He was at a friend's house doing hookah up until late night (maybe even slept over), he wouldn't tell me a name cuz I never asked but apparently his friend is a boy. I don't wanna be paranoid about him cheating without evidence so I'll give him the benefit of the doubt. I was gonna go out to the club and he didn't seem concerned through text he was just like "aayyyyee, turn up turn up" so I guess he doesn't care? Not that that's not good, I'm just asking if I should be worried if my boyfriend acts, well, like this? He's been switching up on vibes lately. One day he would be all happy and Approachable, the next day he's all reserved and insensitive and I assume he's just tired from work since he has a hard job or that he's one of those guys that act douchey when he's will friends. I know guys are sometimes boring, but he seems shady. I know I'm the main since he has pictures of me on his profile and we got the whole heart lock thing down on ig, but sometimes he treats me like a side, not saying he has other girls, but sometimes I don't feel like a girlfriend to him. I mean, I guess we ended on a good note, but can you explain the shade in the middle of the conversation? Are there any other reasons he would throw shade like this other than he was cheating?
Most Helpful Guy
You are over thinking things. I say let it go otherwise it turns really annoying
Most Helpful Girl
Stop worrying to be honest, he's just not as lovey as you are, and you keep pestering him about something be up, it can be slightly annoying, but you can also tell him that you would appreciate it if he was sure with his answers and you want him to wish you a good night as well. I think he's just doing through some emotions he doesn't quite know how to deal with. You can honestly TALK to him communicate in your wants out of this relationship and ask him too x
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