So. This guy I've had my eye on for more than HALF A YEAR just asked me out.
Like, this evening, for tomorrow. For TOMORROW.
I literally can't think straight, and I've been grinning like an idiot for the past 20 minutes.
I need to figure out how to not make a complete fool out of myself tomorrow, wear something actually nice, and, and... I dont even know. This suspense is killing me.
When a date is this important, what do you focus on mostly?
- Focus on what you're wearing, your hair, make up
- Focus on your attitude, what you're going to say
- Relieve your anxiety first, calm down
- Stuff your face with food and hope the problem goes away
- Realize he's a human being too and is probably just as nervous
- Other (Elaborate in the comments)
Most Helpful Guy
*Shakes you around*
Calm the Fruit down! Exhale, take a deep breath.
Ok? All good. Oki!
He's just a person, just like you. He's not your nazi teacher who makes a problem out of the smallest mistake.
Dress up, not too dressed up, but not too sloppy. Breath... Be yourself. Enjoy your time.
Put that phone away during the date, don't mention exes, don't start talking about sex or something, cause these creepy things do happen
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Most Helpful Girl
I believe you should first think about wear he is taking you... Will it be fancy? If so, you can worry about hair, makeup, dress, etc. If not, wear something you would normally wear. He likes you for you, so calm down. He asked you out to date you, so just remember to breathe and act as if you were talking to a friend (unless he wants to be serious.) When you are with your date, your mind might go blank. just breathe, and move to a casual topic. the more casually you talk, the easier the date will be. You don't need to worry though, you seem sweet and considerate. Just have fun!