Most Helpful Girl
Well you can't control who you fall for. But yeah you can choose the crowd where you can find that perfect girl for you.
But you know the worst part of it... You still can't be 100% sure of it.
Next time if you find someone you like, give your mind and heart to adapt to her and not overwhelm yourself. Give it some time before getting involved with her on a serious level.
Or may be try being single intentionally for some time. Take a gap from relationships. Enjoy life and find yourself some adventures ;)
Live life a little and fall in love with yourself!
Good luck :)
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Most Helpful Guy
If your goal is to find a partner for a long-term relationship and possibly marriage, I wrote a take on how to identify the partner you should marry.
Much that is in that myTake should be applicable to your question.