So back to the question title: why do you think people don't want to date you?
A) Do you think it's because people are too impatient and don't want to try to see your great personality through all the initial awkwardness and nervousness that often accompanies getting to know someone new?
B) Or do you think its because you don't put yourself out there enough and allow other people the chance to see what a great person you are?
C) Or do you think you're just ass ugly and no amount of a great personality could ever compensate for the utter lack of physical attraction?
Obviously these aren't mutually exclusive but I just wanna get a feel from everyone. For me it's definitely A and B. My personality's the type that grows on you gradually over time instead of being immediate. I just think a lot of people don't have the patience for gradual and want immediate.
Anyways, give me yo answers.
- It's because I'm a sparkling gem and nobody has the patience to wait for the awkwardness to pass.Vote A
- Nah, it's because I'm too closed-off from people so I don't even give them the opportunity to know me.Vote B
- Nooope, it's because I'm fugly as balls. If I was a pile of shit, not even the dirtiest pig would wanna roll around in me!Vote C
- A & BVote D
- A & CVote E
- B & CVote F
- A, B, & CVote G
Most Helpful Girl
All of the above! I'm baffled by people who do want to date me. But for most people, it's partly because I'm awkward af and need time to warm up to them, and I'm sure plenty of people don't find me physically appealing. Which is whatever. *shrug*4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Guy
All of the above for me. Like you, I think it takes a while for people to warm to my personality. There's nothing about me that would just catch a girl on the spot. Also for C, I wouldn't say I'm fuggy but I'm nothing special and I'm lacking the height to catch a girl's attention right off the bat.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE