Most Helpful Girl
Banking on that leads many guys astray. If you want her to genuinely desire you, work on upping your sex appeal. The good news is that hitting the weight room a bit, wearing clothes that fit well and having a decent haircut are all attainable and he'll quite a bit.
This societal belief that women are meant to feel sexual longing because people are nice to them messes a lot of people up. The concept that uniquely gorgeous women should date someone who largely wants them for their looks, but doesn't put much into his own is equally treacherous.
Most Helpful Guy
Girls are more willing to lower her standards on looks when it comes to relationships. They dont lower their standards for casual sex though. So basically it means she's not as excited to sleep with you as she was with the guys she hooked up with but since you're financially stable, reliable, and willing to take her out on dates/ commit to her shell give you a shot. Also since you're not as desirable as the guys she hooked up with that means she doesn't have to worry about you cheating on her with other girls.