We all have stories about bad first dates. I had an online dating experience with a lady who had posted pictures from 10 years/100 pounds ago. Another date invited me to spend the night at her apartment and I was missing $100 from my wallet the next morning; she blamed it on her roommate, but I never met the phantom roommate. And, of course, I have had one or two first dates on which the lady spent most of her time talking about her recent ex. Needless to say, those ladies did not advance beyond the first round of the competition.
So. . . what is is that a guy absolutely should not do on a first date with you? What is it that will have you walking out and taking a taxi home rather than finishing that deluxe first date dinner?
Girls, what is the worst thing that a guy can do on a first date?
What Girls Said 5
anything physical. i dont get physical quickly, and i prefer to initiate bc i feel safer that way... so if he's advancing, it means he ignored my shutting down his advances.
making racist or sexist generalizations about people. were just not going to hit it off, its good we found out this soon.
jumping to conclusions, getting moody,. Patience is one of the most important traits in a person. its rare but i dont settle for less.
being rude or disrespectful towards me or anyone else.3
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There's lots of things anyone should absolutely not do on first dates. I think you hit the nail on the head with the 3 above.
I would also like to add:
- Talk about the other people they are talking to/seeing
- Argue with wait staff
- Suggest a dine and dash
- Introduce you to their family (on the first date)
- Take you to a company Christmas party (as the first date)
I think all of those are also things that should be avoided.3
I forgot his exact words but he said something like "money can buy anything/women just care about money."
He was a marine and the cheapest guy I've ever met.2
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