We're in our 30's, not our teens or 20's, so to me drinking is immature and childish. My health and fitness is very important to me. He sometimes complains that he's out of shape and gained too much weight and I want to try to encourage him to start working out with me and eating healthier. I need to be with someone who is healthy and I can't date someone who doesn't care about eating healthy.
Would he find it annoying if I tried to encourage him? From what I can see from his ex-girlfriend's facebook photos, she used to encourage his drinking and unhealthy habits because she was that way too. He's already expressed his concerns for his health (but I'm not sure if he just says this because he sees that I take care of myself), so would it be a bad thing to try to change his unhealthy ways?
Will he get annoyed? What if it doesn't work and he continues to binge drink? I like him a lot but this binge drinking 2 to 4 times per month I can't handle.