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Boyfriend says he has some concerns about the long term possibility?

He's said it twice in six months and only after I got upset about something. I wasn't throwing a fit he just avoids conflict at any and all costs then puts it on me saying I'm not easy going. These weren't little things I was upset about and would be problem behavior in any relationship.

I ask him what his concerns are but he doesn't tell me. Then I feel like if you don't think this will be long term then why not bring it up on your own and breakup with me. I feel like he uses it as a wildcard to try and check me anytime I express me feelings.

If he truly has concerns then why not ever bring them up before. It makes me confused and makes me feel abandoned. I'm just trying to gain some understanding and communication. Why would he say this but continue on with me in a relationship? If you don't want to break up or talk about it why bring it up?
Boyfriend says he has some concerns about the long term possibility?
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