I ask him what his concerns are but he doesn't tell me. Then I feel like if you don't think this will be long term then why not bring it up on your own and breakup with me. I feel like he uses it as a wildcard to try and check me anytime I express me feelings.
If he truly has concerns then why not ever bring them up before. It makes me confused and makes me feel abandoned. I'm just trying to gain some understanding and communication. Why would he say this but continue on with me in a relationship? If you don't want to break up or talk about it why bring it up?
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If he isn't willing to talk about these problems, I would have long term issues with him. Talking and communication are key and I would let him know that. I hate confrontation as well but I'm always willing to have a civil conversation to work things out. Otherwise things build up and don't go anywhere good. I would talk to him about it, including your concerns and see what happens.