He says he's not ready to "settle down" because he wants to work on himself first. I just wanted to take our relationship to the bf/gf level. We're exclusively dating, but he's not ready for providing me with a full blown committment (i. e. feeling obligated to text me daily, etc.)
Does this mean he sees me as someone he wants to settle down with?
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Why? Do you want to settle down? Its nice that he has goals that he wants to pursue before he settles down, if he's sincere about them. However, if he's beating around the bush, his efforts towards his goals should be quite visible. You can decide then. In the meantime, why don't you too pursue something? It should take your mind off your boyfriend, give each other space at the same time. Don't fret too much. If he wants to settle down, he'll be pretty obvious about it.0