No hate please, you have your vices and I have mine!
- Doesn't bother me.
- Bothers me, but not a deal breaker.
- Bothers me, not a deal breaker if they're willing to quit.
- Absolute deal breaker.
Most Helpful Guy
Since I smoke, in the process of quitting, it wouldn't be a deal breaker but the issue is that if I were to completely quit and my girlfriend was a smoker then it'd make it much harder to quit. It's the same with being around friends who smoke when you're trying to quit.
That being said, I think smoking is more of a mental addiction than a physical one.
Most Helpful Girl
I dated a smoker before. He was actively trying to quit, so I had no problem with it. He did not accomplish that while we were together and as far as I know still has not. I am not sure if I would want to go down that road now. I do not want to have to deal with the health effects of second hand smoke.