If the girl was with someone for X amount of years and the entire relationship she was the one bringing in all of the money and providing for not only herself but him as well; do you think it is acceptable for this woman to in turn want a financially stable partner who can help her out with finances for a change?
Is it wrong for a woman to want a financially stable partner after going years supporting a man?
What Guys Said 6
It's not wrong as long as she is honest about it...
... and as long as she accepts that some men will only go for women who give good head because he was with someone for X amount of years and the entire relationship she never gave him good head.2
Well think about it from their perspective. Should they support you financially because you supported your ex financially? No, that doesn't make any sense, and honestly they are not gonna give a shit about that because it doesn't affect them.
But... I dont think its wrong to want a guy who will financially support you, it just depends on what you have to offer in exchange of that financial support. I'd be happy to financially support a woman who cooked for me, went shopping, took care of the kids, etc. while I was working. But if she just wanted to sit on her ass doing nothing while I worked, then I wouldn't want to support her.1
Yes, it is only fair! It is a double income society anymore. Love doesn't pay the bills! Both should work and generate income!!!1
It isn't but it would be wrong to actually have have those expectations from him as he wasn't responsible for what you went through. But if he dosnt mind then why not0
Nothing wrong with that1
To expect an equally financially stable partner is completely reasonable.1
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