Hey guys my ex and I split aprox 3 weeks ago haven't seen each other in almost 4.
i made a thread about this already.
our break up was iniaated by me. I really didn't have a choice due to his lack of affection and choosing when to talk to me.
i said to him I deserve better and he told me to "close the book" so I did.
5 days ago after thinking about things and not having closure as such I begged him to meet up and talk, he refused. I sent him a lot of messges asking him to meet up so I could have closure etc. He told me to go away...
i deleted his number, tried to move forward as I really thought this was it. last night I get a message "where are you" I didn't respond until tonight 24 hs later saying "what's up"
i have ended things with him before for the reasons I mentioned above...:..:. He always comes back within two days to a week. He's the one who pushes me away.
i do care for him still, where do I go from here?
Also, is it true that when you "dissapear" they realise what they are loosing. What to do? HELP x
He's been going a little bit crazy trying to call me etc. tried to call me Friday night, messaging me last night asking where i am. Calling me today.
It's taken him a month to do this. I'm going to keep my distance and silence for another 2 weeks and maybe he will realise what it's been like for me.
I'm not into game playing but a little saying "treat people how you would like to be treated".