I Grew up shy and always judged. I started to become a serious self doubter and I felt unattractive most of the time. I did date some guys but they only wanted sex. Never took me serious. This have left me feeling very lonely and feeling inadequate. I am approaching my 30's and it is getting embarrassing that I never had a man take me serious before. Even like 17 year old sister has a boyfriend. I've been told by men that i'm a good girl with a good heart but there's always a but... How do I break this vicious cycle? I don't want to be lonely, forever.
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You attract what you think. So in turn your desires never had a chance from the first time you started to doubt. Doubting is your killer. I am as serious as a heart attack. Your past thought process is causing your today's outcome.
Your doubting my words aren't you? well you are still causing tomorrows woes as well.
You should at least give some solid advice a chance to work it's free miracle.
OK erase all your mindsets and start focusing of what you really want in life. Do you want a play-toy or a long lasting faithful loving relationship? ASK what you want to (God the Earth, the Energy, a tree anything you believe created you.) Now this id the very important part is blind faithfully BELIEVE that you will receive what you are asking for, third RECEIVE it in your conscious of hearts without a glimmer of doubt or negative thought. Hone it as if it is already received physically and never stray from the positive outcome.
That is all you have to do. There is no looking for it what you will be doing by asking believing and receiving is drawing this towards you.
When you doubt you are smashing the flower you seeded just before it is ready to pop out of the soil. So your thoughts today create tomorrows wonders.