Women always looking for confidence, humor, charisma to decide if you worth their time. Then loyalty, honesty, respect becomes a factor. Maybe if ladies looked at these factors more importantly than the previous they would not think all men are assholes
Most Helpful Girl
My guess is that it takes longer to determine whether or not a guy is loyal, honest or respectful.1
Most Helpful Guy
Cause you can't tell who's honest and loyal from the beginning, that takes time. A person can't be loyal to someone they don't know. And you can't tell if they're completely honest if you don't know them well, though if it's obvious they guy is spitting bullshit, girl would get turned off, they know that.
Same with respect, unless the girl is super insecure or with daddy issues, she won't tolerate a disrespectful guy.
You can quickly tell if a guy is charismatic, funny, and confident, but it takes time to know if his honest and loyal.2