So how do I turn them down without being really mean?
I have tried telling them that I'm just not ready, but they always seem to take that personally...
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just be honest,. if they dont trust you there's nothing you can do, and frankly, its not your problem. if you're not being mean then move done your part. beyond you being kind and not intentionally causing harm, their emotional well being is not your problem.