Most Helpful Guy
Come now. None of us can work with this. And what if he is? That so bad?
Most Helpful Girl
Guys 45 and over are generally pretty secure in their manhood and feel more comfortable exploring their sexuality. If you are curious about what he likes, just asks what turns him on. If you are open with him about discussing that sort of thing, he'll probably be open to telling you. Just be honest with him about what you're comfortable with.