I myself am not really there yet... but getting closer everyday.
Yeah some have no jawline even at 10 percent body fat (kinda depressing... but hey loads of girls out there like baby faced guys... so there's hope for you guys too).
2) Having their shit together : And by having shit together I mean kicking ass in academics if you're in college/high school and kicking ass in the workplace if you're out of college.
3) Being a knowledgeable gentleman and not some swag fag. READ a lot. You can even watch some awesome informative videos on youtube.
4) This is purely personal preference...
But being straight edge.😎 Alcohol? No thanks. Give me diet coke any day. 😉 Seriously. It makes you feel and look way better if you're not doing drugs/smoking/drinking.
The chances you'll get rejected if you do these is REALLY REALLY REALLY low. Plus you'll be more successful in most other areas of life too that don't involve dating women.