I asked this guy if he was busy today or tonight and his reply is "why whats tomorrow". This was yesterday I asked him.
Isn't that kind of defensive.
What's your interpretation of it? Like why did he answer that way?
Most Helpful Guy
Myself I can tell you when I have done this.
A girl asks me what I am doing on Saturday.
My reply "why whats happening?"
I didn't mean too be defensive
I didn't realize this could be defensive, but I can see in a way how It could be now.
He wants to know why before anything else happens, you might be asking him on a date, for a favor, something he likes, something he hates.
I think it's better to say Hey, This is whats happening, would you like to come/help/ect.1
Most Helpful Girl
I don't get it. did you literally ask him if he was busy 'today or tonight' (referring to yesterday) or did you ask if he was busy for today aka saturday? anyway he's just inquiring to know why are you asking him that, to know which kind of plans you had in mind for the day, nothing 'weird' to be interpreted here.0
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