Went on a date with this guy. He's very attractive, smart and we had a good time. At the end of the date I texted him "had fun tonight. Thank you for the drinks." He replied "same here. I'll let you make me a drink next time since you have extensive experience. Ttys." I ended the convo with "Funny! Have a goodnight."
2 weeks go by and nothing from him until this morning. He texted me "good morning California." Honestly, I don't like giving the time of day to someone who wasn't thinking about contacting me for 2 weeks, so I'm feeling very indifferent.
Should I respond and give him a chance or leave it alone?
Most Helpful Guy
You're 30-35 playing the text game? Cmon now! Let's be reasonable. REASONABLE!!
Because two weeks go by, and HE hasn't contacted, you're willing to just ignore him now and write him off. Tho it's easy to see here that within those two weeks YOU, YOURSELF did not make contact either.
Don't do this. If it was fun that night, it can be again. And this guys worth should not be determined simply based off him not contacting you in those two weeks. There could be a reason. And that reason may not involve his interest level decreasing for you.
Some people man...0
Most Helpful Girl
Oh I would respond. My thinking is he was trying to give you some space and not come across as overbearing/needy. I know this is a terrible source for real life, but in an episode of The Office and there are these two guys, Andy and Kevin. Kevin met a girl he liked at a Christmas party and Andy, having recently had his ex-fiancée cheat on him, was telling Kevin to ignore her and avoid her as much as possible. So maybe your date was just getting bad advice from someone he trusted. You never know, really0