Going on a first date with a guy tonight. Where we're going is closer to me than him, and he made a comment that afterwards he can "crash on the floor " at my place since it will probably be late. Being our first date, I'm not going to bring him back to my place and show him where I live... I'm just cautious and don't feel comfortable with that. I'm also trying to take things slow and don't want to be slutty and sleep with him so quick. Is it rude for me to say this? Would you understand if you were in this situation?
Most Helpful Guy
No, it's not rude. Unless you're dating teenagers, he's old enough to get a hotel room.2
Most Helpful Girl
Not rude or slutty. Kind of rude for him to invite himself over.1