She dumped me a year ago. Understandable reasons. I gave her a thumbs up and smiled.
Did I handle that well?
- Best reaction you could of madeVote A
- Nah shouldn't of done thatVote B
Most Helpful Girl
i would have done... nothing lol. but what you did is ok too i think.0
Most Helpful Guy
If it was just a guy hitting on her, I'd just make eye contact. Give a smiling nod and say hello, then based on her reaction either stay for a moment and chat or just be on my way. Just because a guy hits on her doesn't mean she's into it. If she's not, stay and chat for a bit to give her an "out" then be on my way when she's covered. If she's into it I'd still say hi, but just keep walking.
If she's with a new guy, make eye contact. Say hi, shake hands with both of them. Say bye and be on my way. I'm not into going out of my way to avoid people, but I'm also not into pretending to be happy to see exes with a new guy. Just keep it cool and cordial and show a level of character that you would be proud of irrespective of what she might think.0