I invite him to hang out and he tells me that he can't come. Then I move the meeting up to next week and he says "okay yeah I think I can come". He never follows up, so I message him and call him out on his flakiness and indecisiveness. He lashed out and said he didn't even want to "try" now because of my behavior and that he didn't want to hang out with me.
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I mean I don't think you should be hurt because he's basically telling you that he's not dismissing a potential relationship with you, but he wants to be your friend first. It's not rejection, its leaving the door open! Keep your head up, if he's into getting to know you more he will try as will you x
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