Most Helpful Guy
Yeah, I'm not naive or an idealist so I know that the easiest and most reliable way to avoid problems in relationships is to date one or two points below your own level. Eg if you are a 5/10 man, date a 3/10 or a 4/10 woman. Since she'll know she likely can't trade up to a better man, she'll be good to you and she's far less likely to divorce you or cheat on your ass. If you go after women at your own level, you're going to have to work your ass off to make sure she won't want to cheat, and even then, a lot of women will STILL try to move up to better men. If the woman you're seeing is above your level, she's almost guaranteed to cheat on your ass every time. Women who can date a 7/10 won't stay with a 5/10.
Most Helpful Girl
Yes with all of my boyfriends before the one I have now. The reason was because I thought so little of myself and my own level of attractiveness that I figured they were the best I could get and I had nothing to lose by dating them. None of them lasted longer than a month and went beyond kissing though.