Most Helpful Girl
Go Slow with any Flow, Joe @chrisbigman. No one says you have to Pick the Cream of the crop right off the bat. it is always good to keep your options open so you Can... Take your pick and even then, play the field, my friend.
No, it doesn't sound so much like You are a "Player," but more Like a Slayer of your own self that you put yourself on this totem pole. Change the profile saying and no need to Explain anything. They can figure everything out once they speak to you. Keep it nice with a description of yourself in an Honest John way today.
Good luck. xx
Most Helpful Guy
If you're being overrun but messages from women that would be good no? I suspect that most people not getting a message back on a dating site would be status quo.