Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you act different around girls you don't like, and you do things that would make them like you... but don't act the same way around girls you do like. Sometimes I'm more comfortable around guys I don't like or wouldn't date than I am guys I would date just out of self consciousness.
Most Helpful Guy
I have this problem too. It's really frustrating. It makes me feel like I'm cursed to be miserable or something. It makes me feel like I have no say in my own life. It makes me feel like no amount of self-improvement will help, no amount of trying to be interesting, no amount of confidence will help because the problem is that I'm fundamentally inferior and I can't beat it, I can't break free of my story. It makes me feel like the problem is that I'm fundamentally less than the alpha males, and I'll never get to defeat them. It makes me feel like I'll never be able to defeat "not good enough". I really hate the feeling that I am restricted to dating someone that I won't even have any real interest in, except that they are all I can get. I worry that I'll never get to experience being with a woman that truly makes me feel alive.
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