Most Helpful Girl
I don't plan on dating a man with no confidence ever again. My ex was extremely clingy, whiny, possessive, and abusive whenever I mentioned a handsome celebrity or when I told him I'd be going out with friends/family. It was the worst two years of my life trying to build his confidence. If anything it gave him power over me to guilt me into taking care of his helpless self. This no confidence stopped being cute after the first month, after which it simply got tiring and draining. = 3=;; Excuse me, I'm bitter when it comes to this topic.
Most Helpful Guy
It matters a great deal. But you have to know where the line is between calm, collected confidence and cockiness.