Always replied to texts, but it went from minutes - hours, then went to days to over a week, then back to days and finally back to minutes-hours.
She would never initiate texts, then she started initiating text sometimes.
Used to use lots of flirty emojis like smilies, winking, blushing, etc. then it dropped, and now she's using them again mutliple times in her texts
After she started being flirty again, I've noticed she's actively inviting me to events, sending me textsabout events, asking me if I'll go with her, just the two of us
Always asked about me, what's going on, and recently has always been asking about my schedule and availability.
She didn't reply to my date idea till the last minute (hours before, lol?) at which point I told her I already made plans.
She then asked me out to make up for it, but then flaked on that date but still kept mentioning she doesn't know if she can go, even though she had already told me this for the last two days.
I ended up stopping replying to her texts, now I notice she does things to passively get my attention.
Most Helpful Girl
As much as I'd like to help, there is way too much I can assume and way too little of valuable information.
For instance, she could simply be playing you due to her actions. Some women love yanking men around.
She could like you yet flaked on the date because she might have felt that you lied to her when you told her that you already made plans (some women feel like men will stop everything in their lives to seek them out).
She could be trying to figure out what she truly wants from you or going back and forth on her feelings. (I'm guilty. I was doing this with one guy and eventually decided that I didn't want him since we weren't compatible... though that could be argued).
In all honesty, I'd leave this girl or have a sit down conversation at a coffee shop to clear everything up.0
Most Helpful Guy
To be honest man I think she was either taken, or talking to other guys while messaging and talking to you. The way she acted and cancel the dates made it seem like that. She also could be an attention seeker just to boost her ego and self esteem. She could had just been using you just to past time.1