So this is the second time I've gone on a date with this girl. After the first time she had said: "You're a great guy but I just got out of a four year relationship and I don't want to lead you on. I'm fine to hangout though." I figured that meant it was over.
After about a month I hit her up, she invited me to her party, I had to leave early but said I'd set something up with her later just us two. So I did, we had lunch (like last time), I dressed up a bit nicer than before cause I figured maybe that was the issue. It was nice, conversation was easy, she seemed to laugh and smile a lot. However I can still sense an awkwardness, more of an aprhension/hesitance about her. Yes I made sure to pay for lunch.
Walked her back to her car with the umbrella since it was raining, and tried to subtly pull in for that cliche kiss after a nice date but I don't think she took the hint or maybe is really good at avoiding it. Thing is we've setup another one and I'm confused. Is this girl just wanting to take it slow or is this really a "just friends" thing? I'm enjoying my time with her for sure, but I also don't want to make her feel pressured.
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Sounds like she's taking you for a ride. I doubt she'd ever want anything serious with you.
She sounds like she's either:
A. Using you. I'd never let a guy friend pay for my dates. She probably wants to get as much out of you by stringing you along. You deserve better.
B. Maybe she's open to a friend's with benefits. You might be down for that, but like I said, if you want something serious, just don't get your hopes up.
Proceed with caution. Based on this, she sounds like an asshole who's stringing you along. I'd keep away.1