I just feel bad because I'm the one who initiated contact with her and I was the one who told her she was cute first. She didn't even believe me at first but I reassured her that I did think she was cute and wanted to get to know her. So I tried to get to know her but now, I honestly don't see her that way. And now she already likes me and wants to hang out and has hearts by my name in her contacts, but I don't feel the same way about her. It's not because she's unattractive I just don't have feelings for her.
How can I tell her that I'm not interested without sounding like a jerk? I feel like a jerk because I'm totally leading her on and she's getting the wrong idea. How do I save this situation? She's a really sensitive girl and I don't want to hurt her feelings.
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Just be honest... Tell her that you find her cute, but you are the moment not looking for anything more but would like to stay friends. She probably will be hurt in some way but nothing better than honesty and being open and both moving on. That way you don't lead her on and she knows where you stand.