Most Helpful Guy
my only problem with massive age difference is when the younger person sees the older person as some kind of "sugar daddy," and the older one sees the younger as a sexy trophy, but neither have any real connection to the other.
look, if you found a 40 year old who loved you and could relate to you and did not find you childish for what you liked, and you found him attractive, fun to be around, and you cared for him, i'd say go for it.
but, both with social acceptance, and with finding someone you can relate to, someone within 10 years of your own age is best, IMHO.
Which sucks, because I'd love a 17-18 year old, fresh, lovely little thing. but could i actually relate to her and give her something meaningful? I'm not sure i could, and age is a big part of why.
Most Helpful Girl
Hahah older guys in my opinion 19 20 guys still act the same way like they did in high school. I think it just depends on the guy and if he happens to be older then it's just a number.