soo what I can I do?
Most Helpful Guy
You leave him because he's a piece of shit. Sorry that what I'm about to say sounds harsh, but I'm going to tell the truth. You sound like a damn doormat that's just letting him step all over you. If you have to obey everything he does and he still beats you then you don't need him. Once you realize that YOU come first in YOUR life, then the answer is clear. If a relationship is meant to benefit both people involved then why the hell are you staying with him if he is the only one benefitting? Consider the fact that there are A TON of guys in the world that would treat you better. Don't stick with him out of fear because trust me your life will be much worse if you stay with him instead of kicking his ass to the curb. YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE, NOT HIM! YOU get to choose who YOU want to share YOUR life with. Notice the emphasis I'm putting on you, because it's your godamn life. Not some guy that likes to take out all of the anger he has in his pathetic life on you. I know it's weird taking advice from some 18 year old kid, but I've seen this happen to people, and trust me, if you don't dump his ass then you WILL regret staying in your current situation because it WILL ruin both you and your life. Nothing changes and life will keep you on your knees unless you get up, take action, and make a change. Good luck.
Most Helpful Girl
The only thing you did wrong is start this question of with "I know I sound pathetic". You do not sound pathetic for asking this question so stop putting yourself down. Don't you see the affect this is having on you? You have done nothing wrong, he has issues which he needs to fix. Seriously, the only thing you can do is leave him or he will destroy you.
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