I'm probably closer to the second but feel like I can act like the first which is better to act like? I'm passionate and confident in my hobbies but have 0 confidence with girls.
Most Helpful Girl
I would never consider either of those guys, to answer your question. I would reject them both and remain single.2
Most Helpful Guy
Between these 2 options, you'll definitely get more success as a douchy arrogant asshole than a pathetic loser with no confidence. Type #2, never gets anything but, Type #1 will get "insecure girls", "bad girls", "immature girls"... or whatever the hell girls that go for assholes are described.5