I have been screwed over and been mistreated by a fair amount of guys but only one has truly hurt me. Long story short he stopped talking to me all of a sudden, nd I was too much of a coward to ask him what went wrong. He just stopped lookin at me. Stoped smiling, texting etc. Just like that it was over. I gave my all to Him and he just brushed me aside and 8 months later I am still dealing with the aftermath of everything that happened between us. my friends tell me that I am mean now (to guys ), that I am heartless and cold, but I don't see it as that. I think of it like this: if you have a heart you get heart broken if you're heartless you don't get hurt. it took so much to bounce back from this guy and still to this day. It is a process. Im wiser than before and more guarded than ever, in a way I'm thankful for the heartbreak, but now because of it I never wanna "love" again. It is sooooo exhausting and usually ends up leaving a big shit of disappointment on my front door. So why are my friends tripping so hard. Their relationships aren't gonna survive life outside of high school anyways. So why bother. Its really a waste of emotions.
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I think you should just stay as you are. You seem confident about that, so don't let other people influence you and your thinking. Stay strong.0