Relationship then sex? Or sex then relationship?

In the past I have dated women that only wanted to kiss and be intimate but not have sex. I felt like I was being used for intimacy. Then I dated women that didn't want to have sex until we were in a relationship, which ended badly because then we figured out that we had almost no sexual chemistry. It was difficult to end things at that point because I was attached and I ended up getting hurt badly but then women complain that men use them for sex. To that I say women use men for intimacy.

  • Relationship first then sex
    Vote A
  • Sex first then relationship
    Vote B
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What Girls Said 1

  • Realtionship forever!

    • What happens if you find out that you aren't a sexual match?

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    • wholly molly... Ya I don't want it slow~!

    • Also a specialize could totally figure it out!

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