So I've been seeing this guy for over a month. We are not official yet, but last week when he was drinking at a buddies he asked me if I would date him and I said I would. He told me he would date me too.
I didn't take him seriously but he told me that he wasn't just saying it. But he was still drinking when he said that so...
Anyway, We've been on 2 dates in the past month. He usually intiates texts, he will send me a good morning text and usually a good night text, and some throughout the day. Lately, however, the good night and good morning texts have not been happening. I've had to initiate those texts.
But he usually does text me back. He keeps telling me how he doesn't like being single. Like he said yesterday that this is his 2nd Christmas in a row being single and it's starting to suck. So I said to him "Well, maybe that will change soon ;)". I was trying to be flirty (I think I failed). He responded, basically by telling me that he likes to take things slow and said he believes it's the right way to do things. I can't argue with that, but it's a bit frustrating not knowing whether he actually likes me or not :S
I feel confused. Because the last date, I had to set up. Then He kept telling me how he's bored and so I suggested we see each othe while we are on holidays. He said sure and then later that day he was telling me that he's bored and asked me what I was doing today. I said I was free and we were going to set up a time to meet.
He said he would text me in the morning. Well, that didn't happen. I texted him and then he finally responded. Then told me that he was going to his dad's today because he didn't see him yesterday.
I'm not bothered by the fact that he had a family thing. But he's not giving me any specific times so I'm not sure if it's just a blow off or if he legit has something going on :/
What do you guys think? We met online and he still has his profile up and is still active on there. I have mine up too, but only because he has his up.
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Hmm... when you say his profile is still active online, can you tell if he's frequently active? Like on Match, it'll say if the person has been on there in the past 24 hours, past few days, past week, etc. If that continues, it's obvious he's on there looking for someone.
It doesn't sound like hie's uninterested in you, though. Just sounds like he maybe doesn't know what he wants, or he's keeping his options open until he decides to dive in with someone. What doesn't come through in your story is how YOU feel about him... would you really like to date this guy? As in, you've got a pretty big crush? :)0
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