My boyfriend and I are from different countries. The 2 of January I will go home for 6 months and I wanted to see my boyfriend this weekend but he told me that is better to wait 2 more days until i don't have my period because "It will be sad if we can't have sex the last time that we see each other"
We had a fight because I felt like he is just using me for sex.
Am i overreacting or Am i right to feel this way?
Most Helpful Guy
That's just a really unhealthy attitude he has about your period. Even if he doesn't want to have sex with you while you're on your period he shouldn't refuse to see you. (And there's nothing wrong with having sex with a girl while she's on her period if she's okay with it. It's not a big deal.) So I just don't understand where he's coming from on this. Periods are a normal part of life.5
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you're overreacting at all.
Can you really see yourself becoming long-term with a guy who doesn't want to see you one last time before you leave for 6 months because you 'can't have sex'? Or who is not able to handle something like you being on your period, which is out of your control and something you'll continue to get on the regular for ht most-part for a few more decades?1