he's my first boyfriend and we dated for about a month before becoming official. so weve been seeing each other for 2 months. anyways i was lying on top of him resting my head above his heart (we were clothed), he was rubbing my back and would kiss my forehead every so often and i was so relaxed that it just came out and i said "im falling for you" and then i said "its okay if you're not" and then he said something along the lines of "he knows that i am but that we've only been official for a month now." he kissed me on the forehead and then the nose and moved my hair behind my ears and told me that i was adorable (not in the way a guy who isn't really into a girl says just to get laid). he's met my family and extended family and was over at my house for dinner that night and made stuff for dinner and bought wine for my parents so i know he really cares about me. he's also told me that he's crazy about me and really likes me. and then i said "i probably shouldn't have said that," and he said "its okay babe, dont worry about it," and i said "i just dont want to get hurt" and he said "i know babe" and then kissed my head again. did i make a mistake by saying it? he didn't back off afterwards or anything and i feel like i can see it in his eyes that he cares deeply about me, but i dont think i should have said it cuz i dont wanna make a fool out of myself
I told my boyfriend I was falling for him and I dont know if it was a mistake or not?
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No, the way he took it, it seems like it's okay that you said it. He obviously cares for you but a month is pretty short and he might not be fully ready to say it back but maybe somewhere down the line he will. He might not exactly be in that place yet. It will be okay. :)0
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I'm kind of confused honestly... why would you two be boyfriend/girlfriend if you weren't falling for each other? I won't agree to officially be a guy's girlfriend until I am falling for him/love him and until he feels the same way. (My current boyfriend who I've been with for over a year now and I were best friends for months before our feelings became love for each other.) This being said, you didn't mess anything up. Within a day, it'll just be in the past what you said. Maybe you are moving faster feelings-wise than him, but it doesn't mean that he is that far behind you. I do believe that he does care about you. Best of luck 😊0
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