I'm very attracted to this girl I know. I asked her out on a date about a few months ago, but she made up excuses to not go, so I decided that she wasn't interested in going out with me. Since then, we've run into each other from time to time. I'm a little puzzled by her behavior. she still seems very friendly towards me and smiles to me a lot, but then again, she's like towards everyone.
If I should get to know her better before asking her out again, how can I do so? I don't see her that often though, and whenever we run into each other, we don't really say that much other than small talk, where she usually just reciprocates questions I ask about her. we hadn't spoken in over a month until today, where I was surprised she remembered something I told her about myself a month ago.
i can't think of any other ways we can spend time together for us to get to know each other better, other than to ask her on a date, since we don't have any friends in common, other than we both know her cousin
i have no idea what she does for fun, other than she likes hip-hop music, and is willing to learn the guitar (I don't like either)
however, one time, she did play foosball with me and someone else we both know
i was thinking of choosing between 3 options:
1. next time I run into her, I could ask if she wants to play foosball with me, to get to know her better
2. get her AIM, since its rare for us to see each other in person, so I can get to know her better
3. just ask her out asap
what should I do?
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honestly, if you like her. Ask her out. Be friendly and non-creepy about it and just ask her out for a drink/lunch/whatever! You only live once, someday you will die and when you are laying there you will regret not grabbing these oppertunitys, What;s the worst that could happen? I was in your situation a while back, and I risked being shotdown, looking like a fool and today I'm still with her, the girl of my dreams. Go for it and good luck!0