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You can't make him regret it. He can only regret it himself, and you have no control over whether he does or doesn't.
He broke up with you for a reason. You think he still loves you. Even if he does, there is a lot more to a relationship than love. There is a reason he left. That reason is almost certainly still there. Learn from your mistakes and move on. If you don't know what your mistakes are, you'll learn with time. When you are in a relationship you are too involved emotionally to fully understand your role. With time and hind site it will become more clear what you did wrong. That doesn't mean you are the only one who did things wrong. But you are the only one you can change.
Even if he gets back with you, the reasons he left will still be there. Nothing will have changed and he'll just grow to resent you and make it even worse. For now, it seems like at least he left on a relatively good note.
Store the relationship away in the fond memory compartment and move on. I know it's hard, very very hard. But you have to move on. Give it time and you'll be OK.5