I'm crushing on a guy who performs at my favorite bar. It's been over a year that I've been going there and something about him intrigues me. Wednesday night I went there and I was on the dance floor all night; we kept exchanging flirty glances the whole night. Now, I'm not a shy girl whatsoever but something about him makes me feel like I'm in first grade - with those little flutters in the tummy. I decided to go ahead and write my name and number on a piece of paper. After the night ended, I introduced myself, told him I've been growing the balls to do this for awhile (and I added that if he had a girlfriend, I totally understood) and gave him my number. He put it in his pocket. Well, it's now Tuesday and I still haven't heard from him. I don't know if giving him my number intimidated him or he just wasn't that interested but the looks he was exchanging with me told a different story. I'm almost kind of ashamed because I didn't think I'd take it this hard, but it's taken me a year to work up the courage. Then to top it off, I ended up coming across his Instagram and I'm at a standstill if I should follow him or just not bother. Help?
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You did nothing wrong - he's not intimidated and he was probably flattered if anything that you did that. He may already have a girlfriend or someone he is seeing, he might not want a relationship and doesn't want to lead you on. So he could have been interested in you but if he's a good looking performer he probably has a lot of girls after him. Maybe he wants to focus on his career too, who knows
I know the feeling of spending months working up the courage to do something like that only to have them not reciprocate. Personally I wouldn't follow him, because you'll keep thinking about it and keep looking at his new pictures wondering if he has a girl. The best thing really is to set your sights on another guy and work towards forgetting about him.3