Alright, so I am a white guy dating a black girl yada yada yada. We have been dating for a month. She says she wants our relationship to be a secret because she doesn't want black guys thinking she only dates white guys. Also, she said she would marry me but won't have kids with me because she doesn't want white looking kids and that she'd probably murder them if they dared claim they're white side. She says she isn't racist and that she just isn't used to a life around white people. I don't know. I REALLY like her. I don't know. Is she racist or just preference?
Most Helpful Girl
You should run. Im sorry but in the long run it's going to bother you and get under your skin. She is a racist. Who in there right mind would say they didn't want kids because she thinks she will murder them that's sick. I know there are black women who date outside thier race and have no problems being in public with the guy or even having kids with them. And being a loving parent. Her priorities are not good she's worried about what othere men are going to think and if you want a family or kids it's not going to happen with her. Honestly if you stay your going to be unhappy and miserable.1
Most Helpful Guy
I wouldn't say she was racist but she probably has that attitude as a result of her upbringing or the society she grew up in.
I'm assuming she's under 18 since you are.
It's somewhat immature and ignorant of her but I don't know the full story.
Just talk to her, try to educate her on the subject.0