I'll try to keep this short. As a preface, my friend, has a boyfriend. Anyway, yesterday, she invited me to a basketball game, and it was a lot of fun. After that, we went home to her place (she is 16) and sat and watched a movie and cuddled more or less. I recently (a month or so ago) broke up with my ex, and although I am more or less over it, I really missed the cuddling and stuff. Anyway, we cuddled while watching a movie. Nothing happened, but the odd part is, she has a boyfriend. I'm fairly certian it's not cheating b/c neither one of us want to date eachother (we have discussed it in depth) but for some reason, we both really enjoyed cuddling, and I'm just confused. If you were in this situation, what would you do? If you have any questions about it, let me know. Thanks!!
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Cuddling confuses me?
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I would refuse to cuddle with someone who is taken. It might not be cheating if you keep your hands to yourself but it's definitely in a gray area, so it's inappropriate. I would not be comfortable knowing that my boyfriend is cuddling with his girl friends. Cuddling with this girl in the future is a bad idea, as long as she has a boyfriend.0
Sometimes, you just need to cuddle with someone you trust for you it's your Bestfriend for her she shouldn't have done it as she has a boyfriend but if you are both sure you guys both got no feelings for each other then it's fine. It means she takes you as her brother and nothing is wrong with that0
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