I have a big problem, I have always hated myself, since I can remember. I dont know why, I can't put a word on why, but I just do. Its this thought I have everyday, and its putting me down. I can't take peoples compliments, and you may think its because of attention, but its not. I really hate myself
I don't know what to do, Im scared no guys will want me, because of my insecurity about myself. I know that most of the guys want a girl with confidence, but I can't fake it, I've tried..
If you dated a girl/guy with low self esteem, would you stay away from the person or what would you do?
Most Helpful Guy
"If you dated a girl/guy with low self-esteem, would you stay away from the person or what would you do?" I wouldn't date a girl with low self-esteem to begin with... since I need a girl who's cute + knows it (secure with herself).2
Most Helpful Girl
I know from experience that insecurity can change you. I was insecure for about 3 years and that bubbly personality I had was gone. I went through a phase where I snapped at anyone and everyone. It wasn't a good time for me. But now I have confidence and I love myself. And tbh I wouldn't date an insecure person. I also wouldn't recommend you to even think about dating because if you can't love yourself how in the world do expect to love someone else? Love yourself and accept you and then you can go on about loving someone else.
I don't know you but I'm going to say this. You are special and you are unique and you are beautiful. I know this because I know my God. And I know for sure because he didn't make one ugly girl on this big beautiful earth. I'm a Christian and I'm praying that you will love yourself.0