I met this girl a couple days ago and she is really cool. I only talked with her for about 30 minutes because it was at a party, and I had to leave so I could sleep for work. But she goes to my college and I see her around every once in a while, its a big school but she is in a similar major to me so we are in the same buildings a lot. I got the impression she was interested in me, maybe I am just being crazy, but I can't really explain it, just the way she looked at me, and talked to me seemed different then how she talked to other guys around us. Anyway, I am at least a little interested in her, but I dont really know what to do to get closer with her. I dont want to ask her out for coffee or anything like that, cause I dont know her well enough, but I would like to have the opportunity to talk with her a little more, to decide if I like her, how do I go about doing this?
Most Helpful Girl
Next time you see her around campus stop her and chat. Ask for her phone number or something, or just straight up and ask her out to coffee to get to know her better. Tell her you enjoyed talking to her at the party and wanted to know if she'd like to get coffee with you sometime. Get to know her then0
Most Helpful Guy
Just listen. Women need people to listen to them. All too often, we are not good at that because we are action oriented. Women complain and then we react trying to solve her problem and telling her what to do. She usually doesn't want that; she just wants you to listen. Other women know this which is why women talk to each other a lot and we just grunt. So, if you really want to distinguish yourself from other guys in this girl's history, be a good listener and offer emotional support. Also, when she reaches out or asks a question, answer or gently deflect, but do not ignore her.0