Me and my girlfriend has been together for 3 months and its been a rough road. We had sex a few weeks ago and last week, she told her best friend and now her best friend is naggin at her talking bad about me. I really love this girl but tell me what you think. The other day, I was at her house and she was texting her friend the whole time. Then about 30 minutes before I had to leave I said "baby can you put the phone down for 30 minutes and spend time with me." Long story short she still texted her. Then the next day, she went to stay the night with her best friend, and she was taking forever to text me back. Then she kept telling me she had to text me later because she didn't want to be rude to her best friend. But she was rude to me the night before. Me and her only hung out for 4 hours but she was with her friend all day. She couldn't tell her friend bye for 30 minutes but constantly told me she had to go when she had over a day with her. And then I found out her best friend told her she don't like me and that she wants her to break up with me. Then today she sent a screenshot of what her friend said and her friend said I need to tell you something but don't tell your boyfriend. I'm sorry but it's kinda making me mad and I need some advice from other girls. Can you help me please.
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Does not sound like she is treating you with respect at all and is heavily influenced by her friend who probably doesn't like you because you are competition for your girlfriend's attention. You are right if she is spending time with you then she should be with you and not text her friend. You can firstly try talk to her how it affects you, and see if you can get her to agree to change her ways. If that fails break up with her - either you will find someone else who will treat you better, or she will realise what she has lost and want you back and realise she needs to change how she treats you in order to keep you.1
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