I had a good female friend say she liked me and I replied that I was the same. She said she was looking forward to hanging out over the holidays. She said she wants to be 100% straight with me because she cares for me, likes my company and says she sees us togteher.
I gave her my hoodie, puck and beanie and they all mean something to me (she hasn't returned them or anything) I bought her a small gift and flowers (we do this already) and sent them to her for Christmas. However she has not acknowledged the receipt of them nor has she spoken to me since early December.
I asked her what we were and said I don't mind if it hurts but I just want to know, with no reply as well as seeing her and she said she wasn't mad and I didn't do anything but she doesn't feel like talking. But will talk to me when ready. Is there a good reason for the silence? Do you tell someone you feel like you're in a relationship and then turn around a week later?
Is this a normal reaction? Would she no longer like me because I told her I liked her and wanted to give a relationship a real crack? Were the gifts too much? How long am I going to have to wait to hear from her/will I hear from her?
Also any advice on the situation or how to proceed is appreciated :)
Most Helpful Girl
Hmmm... what I receiving from her actions is that she either didn't like you that much in the first place and spoke too quickly and now doesn't know what to do, or something happened that has stunned her pretty bad and she just needs some time. I'm sorry if my response sounds really brutal but if I was acting that way those would be the reasons why.
As for what you should do, just give her some time. If she's as good of a friend as you say then she'll come around and tell you what's up, but if not then I don't think it was going anywhere and that you should move on.
Hope this helps...0
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, it's weird but then she may have her reasons for doing that also0