I am a shy girl myself, but I am attracted mostly to outgoing, eccentric guys. I don't know, maybe opposites DO attract in this case?
- Shy girl/guyVote A
- Outgoing girl/guyVote B
Most Helpful Guy
I am more into the girls who are kinda shy in general but don't take 400% effort to somehow establish a conversation. I am probably also at fault for not being up to date in general common happenings, but you can still talk if you actually want to. Some shy people just really keep to themselves and aren't very talkative no matter what you do.2
Most Helpful Girl
I voted shy guy because that's usually what I'm initially attracted to. But right now I'm in a relationship with a really outgoing guy. Over a year ago I met this guy through a mutual friend. I found him really attractive and he was shy like me. Once we got to know each other conversations flowed easily and I honestly thought I could fall in love with him. But because we were both shy, neither of would initiate. It took him a whole year (but he was hours away at school for 99% of the time) to kiss me. He was also very flakey and very hesitant about asking me to hangout. He always wanted me to ask and would say things to hint at it. That's when I learned that I don't actually want to be with a shy guy, although that's what I'm attracted to initially.
Now my current boyfriend is the opposite of me. He's not afraid to be who he is. When I'm feeling shy or self conscious he brings me back by telling me all these amazing things. He's exactly what I needed and I didn't even know it.2