I know what I want in a girlfriend. I do my duedilligence on girls before I ask them out. I want to know what j am getting into before I do. I don't want to waste my time or hers. Am I being too picky? Most of my friends will date any girl that "opens" her legs. I am not one of those guys. They keep saying I got too high of standards. I'm 24 and want a real relationship not just a fling or one night stand.
Most Helpful Girl
No, that's fine. Just make sure that your 'wanted list ' is achievable. Girls can be guilty of this, I know I have been. We build these lists. He must have this, and that... And the list ends up with 30 different qualities that we desire in a partner. ( some of them contradictory). So maybe restrict the breaker qualities (the qualities the girl must have) to 3-4 things.
These things might included- must be a certain religion ( if religious), must live within 10kms ( if unwilling to move), must want children ( if you plan to have a family in the future) etc
Have a further 5-10 desired qualities ( would be nice to have, but not deal breakers)
Likes sports, likes hiking, likes dogs, likes Chinese food, likes to play Xbox, etc
Be open to go on a date with someone who mets all your essential qualities, but may not met all or very few of your desired qualities. You may find that you meet someone who may not have initially met all the desired qualities, but who is in fact a perfect match because she is unique and different and adds a little spice to your life.0
Most Helpful Guy
Some people are just careful nothing wrong with that0