what intimidates you when it comes to the opposite gender? i used to be intimidated by lots of girls during highschool even though i wasn't interested in dating them, now after graduating and going to college it seemed a bit dumb that i ever thought they were better than me ( of course losing lots of weight, working out, wearing stylish clothes, growing in height... 6'1, gaining lots of skills and abilities and becoming good looking did help with it) ... girls that never looked at me, now stare.
However few things still intimidate me :
1- a rich girl: iam not rich and will never be so if i see a rich girl i avoid dating her even if she is interested mainly because i know i can never give her the lifestlye she wants.
2- extremely pretty : now normally i dont care much about how attractive a girl is, i notice it sure but i dont start sweating or act dumb or anything i keep my cool... except when this happens... i saw a week ago a girl so perfectly beuatiful she's one in a million, simply perfect i can't keep my eyes off her , i know she looks at me too i've seen her but thats not the point, she has such beauty iam intimidated by it and that rarely happens.
thats it pretty much , these two reasons sometimes stop me from making a move or attempt to date a girl , so what about you?
Most Helpful Girl
Really good-looking guys with muscle intimidate me, like I get soooo attracted that I'm totally flustered around them. There aren't many guys that can do it to me, but the ones that have it just make me feel so small LOL.1
Most Helpful Guy
For me, most of the intimidating quality of the opposite gender was just based on me judging them by preconceptions from media, books, fairy tales, etc.
I got over it when I realized everyone's human, not some magical creature to be adored from afar. There was somewhat of a "whatever" mindset that accompanied it when I started getting over that sense of intimidation.1