Like this girl is super shy with me and its pretty hard to get her one on one to talk so i was wondering if i should talk to her through a social media like instagram or facebook. I've done this before with another shy girl and it actually worked, I got really close to her. I want to try it with this other girl because approaching her will be too hard since she's at my job and we can't just stop and talk because i'm busy all the time.
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Do your thing.
In my experience, girls don't respect that. You can save yourself a lot of drama and heartache by asking her straight up what she's into, and if she'd like to get together on the weekends.
You have to learn how to get comfortable with conversation in your domain. It's harder when you like the girl, but you're better off getting a straight answer right away then lingering on social media.0